Back to blog again....
Tml I'm on leave....
Coz Hubby POP...so
i'm attending...
He is excited about it....
Coz he has been saying i
nv send him in when he enlist so now he POP i must go...
hahaSomthing to share....He already sign his contract
wif navy
ytd....
~Bi...
jus sumthing to tell u....Once decision is made....dun bother wad others say those negative words to u...
Coz they will
nv understand how's our planning goes in future....Further more...is Our Future n not theirs....so i really dun understand y human beings
gif so much negative comments.....Instead they should as a relative
gif supportive to u but they don't n yet make things unplesant....Bi...rmb no matter wad...I'm here to be with you to support you through ups and downs.....Your family n my family are supportive in your decision so dun bother the rest of your relatives.....We
knw n we understand navy is always your choice of serving to the nation....I'm proud of u...having u as my hubby....
Jia you hubby...and we will be able to
succeed one day...~
Some miscommunication between mi n his mum ytd....but everything was fine...thinking back...we are also doing it for hubby's own gd....so hubby can u see tht so many pple r actually besiding you supporting u....I knw this decision has been the biggest decision for you to make...As i told you wad my dad asked mi to pass msg to u...."Once decision is made, chiong when you young....never be afraid to fall as human beings learn from mistake...But when fall...learn to climb up again, start all over again n never gif up anything in your life...." A msg frm my daddy to u...hubby"
Also...hubby...I'm sorry i can't be your guarantor for your contract as i'm holding Full Time student pass from PSB Academy and Credit Cards as a status of full time student with the guarantor of my daddy also...my working status in daddy's company is jus a part timers/freelance....even though i've reached 21 yrs old...but my status is not working adult still a full time student....I really seek your understanding...But i still support you in any other ways....
And also....I have been looking at HDB website...learning on how to apply for HDB....We are moving on n on our planning....I agree with most of them tht when you reached 21....tht's really alot of burden n decision tht u haf to make for urself....
Some thoughts in my mind at this moment...But also really have to sit down n discuss wif hubby coz is between both of us...normally when he is in camp...he will jus ask mi do research first....
Firstly....ROM first or apply HDB first...Understand tht you can apply HDB first but within the 3 mths u gt to produce your ROM Ccert...So which wan comes first??????
ROM is easy by jus signing....BUT....After ROM are we gg to customary straight away or a year later....If straight away....Got enuff money???? Able to save the amount tht we need????
Parents wise...His parents agreed us on early marriage but how about my parents???? Am i the one should tell my parents first or hubby???
Full of thoughts....Hubby oso wan early marriage...neither nor I....
And I was telling hubby...since u gt stable income le....I NEED A BREAK....slack at home for 1 mth....LOL....He agreed...he say not a prob....But when think back tai tai life is boring oso...everyday at home...so lifeless...so 1 mth is enuff for mi...LOL....But hubby wan to bring mi for overseas oso...With money around...you can just do whatever things u wan u like without second thoguhts...